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C’est toujours pareil avec toi, j’en ai marre !! » Elle se lève de table comme une furie, s’enfuit dans sa chambre en claquant sa porte d’une telle force que la maison trembla. Un silence glacial s’installa. Décryptage On se trouve en face de deux parties conflictuelles, aucune des deux personnes ne se sent entendue. Tout d’abord, il y a l’implication de la mère dans son rôle de parent avec la volonté de faire de son mieux. Elle pense connaître ce qui est bon pour sa fille, en se dispensant de son point de vue. Par conséquent, la réaction de la jeune fille se répercute vite en conflit. Effectivement, Harmony se sent révoltée, en particulier par le manque de considération dans les efforts qu’elle a faits pour réussir son diplôme. De surcroît, les paroles de sa mère viennent aggraver une autre remarque qui avait été faite en amont. Ainsi, Harmony prend les réflexions de sa mère comme des exigences. 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class="" id="" animation_type="" animation_direction="left" animation_speed="0.3" animation_offset=""] • Poser une question ouverte, de façon à ce que le jeune puisse exprimer son point de vue et ses craintes. • Reformuler ce que l’on a compris pour éviter les mauvaises interprétations. • Partager ensemble vos arguments et contre arguments. • Prendre le temps de s’écouter l’un et l’autre. • Entrer dans une recherche de solutions, gagnant/gagnant.[/fusion_text][/fusion_builder_column][fusion_builder_column type="1_1" layout="1_1" spacing="" center_content="no" link="" target="_self" min_height="" hide_on_mobile="small-visibility,medium-visibility,large-visibility" class="" id="" hover_type="none" border_color="" border_style="solid" border_position="all" border_radius="" box_shadow="no" dimension_box_shadow="" box_shadow_blur="0" box_shadow_spread="0" box_shadow_color="" box_shadow_style="" padding_top="" padding_right="" padding_bottom="" padding_left="" margin_top="" margin_bottom="" 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